How to STOP getting half-ass, non-soulmate clients.
>> I’m fucking done with non-soulmate, half-ass clients. <<
Like literally - not available for it.
Because at this level of my business and life - I GET TO CHOOSE (AND YOU GET TO CHOOSE) EXACTLY, PRECISELY, DEFINITELY, WHO Y.O.U. WANT TO WORK WITH.
And if anything, your potential clients are the ones who should be handling YOUR objections. Because as an online LEADER (and not just a follower).. you only work with the best of the best.
The people who beg to pay you in full and sign themselves the fuck up for whatever you’re offering.
The people who respect the SHIT out of you, who are always on time to calls, who ask YOU if they can write YOU a testimonial, who sign up for everything you offer.
The people who are actually willing to CHANGE.. willing to drop the motherfucking struggle mentality they’ve been operating in.. and who are willing to open their minds to a kind of mentoring that will change who they are - and the trajectory of their lives forever.
The people who will do the WORK, who will hustle cause they love it - and who understand that the work of the highest level entrepreneurs is ALL about the mind, and less than 0.01% about the strategy.
The people who ACT AS THE EXACT KIND OF CLIENT THAT THEY WISH TO HAVE.
The people who understand that it is 100% THEIR responsibility to transform and to listen.. and to shift. Daily.
Is it scary for me to write this post?
Yeah, a bit.
Cause I know that the half ass people I’ve worked with will see this and think it’s about them.
YEP, YOU RIGHT.
It’s about you.
And I literally don’t care if you read this.
I’m not gonna sit here and name the annoying things that have happened with non-aligned clients in the past few weeks (although I could)… because as much as it’s about you - and how last-level working with people like you was for me…
It’s about something bigger than you.
It’s really about all of YOU.. reading this.
The people who are thinking that it’s their duty to just help everyone and anyone who comes your way who says they’ll pay you.
For the love of God, It’s not - I promise it’s not.
Cause yesterday, I had a client to whom I posed this question: “Who is YOUR ideal client that YOU want to work with? That you’d choose?”
And she proceeded to provide a description of all the people who had reached out to her asking for help.
Not what I asked.
But it showcased something VERY interesting..
Most people have no freaking CLUE that they have the complete POWER to choose and decide who they bring into their lives.
It’s like that period of time in our twenties where we kept dating the shitty ass guys ..
The guys who never paid for dates, who ghosted you, who gave you short answer text messages instead of actually trying to go deep with you.. so that you both could transform and create a beautiful relationship.
They pretty much just wanted to get laid and you thought so little of yourself that you just kept giving yourself up to them, over and over and over, although you knew it was wrong, although you knew that they were below your standards, although the way you were acting was way below your standards.
You chose that.
Hell, I for sure chose that for a period of time.
Choosing clients is the same.
So when are you gonna wake up and REALIZE that you get to choose your clients, and decide exactly what kind of treatment and respect you are and aren’t available for?
They’re called fucking boundaries.
They’re called STANDARDS.
They’re called fire the unaligned clients, and get REALLLLL specific about who you DO WANT.. and who you don’t want.
Cause it’s kind of like that dream guy we all want to manifest.. the one we dream up in our heads.. you can’t find him and know he’s the one unless you know what it is you want, expect, and deserve.
CAN YOU OPEN YOUR EYES.
AND SEE THAT YOU GET TO CHOOSE.
Who does, and doesn’t, get to be in your life.
What you are and are not available for.
And please SEE THAT YOU ALREADY HAVE THE POWER TO DO THIS.
No matter how weak or desperate you may feel right now.. no matter how many people have told you you’ll never be successful, or that you can’t possibly charge xyz amount for clients, no matter how many people have ridiculously accused you of being in an MLM witch circle simply because you sell stuff online.
You have the power.
To stare straight ahead in your lane.
To put those blinders on to anyone and anything making you believe you don’t have the power to choose exactly what the fuck your business gets to be like and look like.
The time to step into that power is now.
Cause our life, your sanity, your HAPPINESS, does not need to be wasted working with people who make you wanna poke your eyeballs out.