How to Shift Out of MONEY BLOCKS with ONE STEP
How many of you have ever AVOIDED MAKING MONEY, TALKING ABOUT MONEY, OR SELLING.. because you have SO much money fear/stories/other bullshit?
You’re not alone. i was having a chat with a good friend today on how she's been AVOIDING TALKING ABOUT MONEY IN HER MARKETING AND MESSAGING - because she hasn't been making as much as she used to so she feels like a fraud.
And so here’s how I coached her through it:
(read til the end cause I share the one thing I do when I’m feeling blocked or scared around money that always fucking works.)
✨ She had an experience with a mentor that DIDN'T. WORK. She felt like because she HADN'T gotten money results with this mentor, but other people had, that something was wrong with HER.
She signed on with this person thinking it was a fast track to lots of income. So because of this she started to lack trust in herself, stopped talking about money, STOPPED ATTRACTING MONEY.
AKA stopped doing the work to make the money, because she didn't feel she was good enough.
✨ Her ideal clients don't want to just buy 'fulfillment and happiness' - they want that, AND some fucking clients and cash money, just like she does.
Her pretending that they don't want money is merely a reflection of her own money avoidance. Desiring money doesn't make you bad, and avoiding talking about the monetary results her work can create only hurts her business, AND the potential people she could help - because they'll never transform without her fully showing up and sharing/owning ALL of the results she can create for people.
^^ The money, fulfillment, relationships, love, success, recognition.. ALL the results.
✨ By not sharing a huge part of who she is and her message (her love for creating money) she is immediately shifting her marketing/content out of integrity - which people can feel.
So no wonder people aren't responding to her messaging if she's lying to herself about this. People in the coaching space are intuitive. THEY KNOW.
✨ She had a belief that because she hadn't been managing her money well, that she can't make it or didn't deserve to. So, I told her..
"GO MANAGE IT. The second you create a spreadsheet and start tracking what goes in and out, your debt, how much you're paying, you're managing it and you can stop using that as a BS excuse."
It takes literally 5 minutes to set a spreadsheet like that up, ya'll.
✨ You create confidence when you do the things you are naturally good at and meant to do. When you DON'T do those things that are natural to you - like for her, making money - you LOSE confidence in yourself and stay stuck/not taking profitable action.
The best way to get it back? Make money. Not to hit an income month. It could be a $15 freakin workbook or masterclass. Sell something to remember your love for creating money again. Sell something to EMBODY AND BECOME the woman who makes money naturally because it’s part of who she is, and a natural result of sharing her gifts and creating an open pathway for money to be received.
AKA IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING FOR SALE, HAVEN’T HAD A SALES CONVO IN A HOT MINUTE.. your pathways are closed, my love.
There literally isn’t a way for money to get to you because you haven’t opened up the channel. So if you’d like some, please go open a pathway up. K thanks.
✨ Making money is therapeutic. A coach friend of mine shared this with me the other day when we were chatting and I thought it was gold so I shared this with my friend too. How we perceive making money affects how we create it.
So, if she associates spending high ticket sums with mentors who weren't the right fit, and she associates that experience with feeling inadequate..
no wonder she doesn't want money. Doh.
🧐 SO WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO?
You haven't forgotten how to sell or make money. (Although my friend tried to convince me that she wasn’t good at it anymore and forgot how.) I almost cried laughing. This bitch is the best at making money. SHE USED TO TELL ME - “CHRISTIE, OF COURSE YOU GET TO MAKE UP A NEW PROGRAM FROM YOUR SOUL AND JUST TELL THE WORLD AND PUT A PAYMENT LINK ON IT.”
^^Isn’t it funny how fear can make us forget how fucking fabulous we are at making money?
You've also probably forgotten that you can be aligned as fuck, going through your shit and working on your limiting beliefs, AND make money at the same time.
Or maybe you never knew, in which case, there is the truth bomb of the century for you. STOP WAITING TO WORK THROUGH YOUR SHIT / INTEGRATE / BE ALIGNED BEFORE YOU TAKE ACTION. That’s cleverly disguised sabotage. Just cause yo ass is spiritual don’t mean you get to use that as an excuse not to take action.
You've also probably forgotten that making money is good.
So go decide that you are WORTH IT enough to go create some. And in the act of opening up the money pathways, and creating more money, you will only reaffirm your self worth.
$1, or $100,000. Doesn’t matter. The point is to become the person who creates money because she can and values herself enough to.
Show up for YOU - so you can show up and share your gifts with the world.
💜 You get to be loved, appreciated, and massively compensated - simply for being yourself online. 💵
AND PART OF WHO WE ALL ARE, ARE ENTREPRENEURS WHO LIKE TO MAKE MONEY.
And that's fucking a-ok. 👌🏼
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..so we can remind the god damn world that making money is a good thing.
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